The Roads We Choose

Published: February 27, 2025

By Jim Lichtman
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In high school, the distinction between right and wrong—more or less—appeared clear. Catholic high school made it unambiguously clear. Thanks to the good brothers of Salesian, you either learned the right path quickly or you were firmly corrected (accent on firmly.)

Which brings me to a long-remembered poem whose last lines are frequently quoted.

Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,
And sorry I could not travel both
And be one traveler, long I stood
And looked down one as far as I could
To where it bent in the undergrowth;

Then took the other, as just as fair,
And having perhaps the better claim,
Because it was grassy and wanted wear;
Though as for that the passing there
Had worn them really about the same,

And both that morning equally lay
In leaves no step had trodden black.
Oh, I kept the first for another day!
Yet knowing how way leads on to way,
I doubted if I should ever come back.

I shall be telling this with a sigh
Somewhere ages and ages hence:
Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.

Robert Frost’s The Road Not Taken is more than a poem about choice, it’s a reflection on how we make sense of our decisions. We like to believe that when we stand at a crossroads, one path is clearly right, the other clearly wrong. But Frost reminds us that life rarely offers such certainty.

Frost faces two roads that, despite appearances, are “really about the same.” Yet, in hindsight, he tells himself that taking “the one less traveled by” has “made all the difference.” That’s how we often view our choices, assigning meaning and significance to them after the fact, looking at them as defining moments.

But what happens when the road ahead is clouded by disinformation? Today, too many people are retreating into political loyalty rather than seeking truth. The lines between fact and fiction have been deliberately blurred, and instead of making thoughtful choices based on values like honesty, responsibility, and respect, we see people clutching to narratives that confirm their biases, regardless of the facts.

Instead of questioning what is true and right, many follow the road paved by convenience, ideology, or fear. The challenge isn’t just making a choice, it’s ensuring that choice is established in truth, not in the loudest voice or the most convenient falsehood.

Socrates reminds us, “The only true wisdom is in knowing you know nothing.” In a world where certainty is often built on misinformation, real wisdom, real moral clarity comes from the courage to question, to doubt, and to seek truth beyond the easy answers. It comes from the values that guide us in the moment, when the road ahead is uncertain, when truth is inconvenient, and when the easier path is often the one that asks the least of us.

The real difference isn’t in the road itself, but in the integrity of the person walking it.

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